Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Anti-Racism. Now, some of you may be thinking, “not all cops are bad,” or “there would be no law & order if we defund the police.” But there is so much more to the story that you may not know about. Today, let’s talk about the realities …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk About Anti-Blackness
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Equity. Now, some of you may be thinking, “but we are not a part of the problem.” And even if we are not outwardly racist, we are still a part of the problem. I know this is where things may get more uncomfortable and personal, but many …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk About Equity
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Solidarity Now, some of you may be thinking that black people “are doing this to themselves, because look how far we’ve gotten as minorities.” And it can be so problematic to think of it that way. So today, let’s talk about (1) Being born into oppression vs. Immigrating …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk About Solidarity
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Black Lives Matter. Now, some of you may be thinking “this isn’t even about us, so why should we care about all of this?” And I understand that it can be difficult to see why we should make an effort to do more if it doesn’t seem …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk About Black Lives Matter
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Protests. Now, some of you may be thinking “This is not right because all lives matter.” And that’s true, every human’s life does matter, but today let’s talk about why we say BLACK LIVES MATTER. Instead of reading what I have to say about how the phrase …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk About Protests
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about Privilege. Now, some of you may be thinking: “But they’re looting and hurting innocent businesses. Nobody will sympathize with them.” We don’t expect you all to agree with all of the methods of protesting, but we want you to understand why they’re happening in the first place. …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: Let’s Talk about Privilege
Dear Aunty & Uncle, Last time, we talked about how: Black people did not choose the lives they live. The history of race, racism and slavery are impacting black people’s access to opportunities today. Systemic Racism (a combination of our history, policies, and cultural practices) contributes to the injustices (unfairness) that black people face today. …
Dear Aunty & Uncle: A Series on Talking to South Asian Families About Supporting the Black Community
Introduction to the series and talking about Black Lives Matter “But why is everybody overreacting over the death of one man?”Dear Aunty & Uncle, Let’s talk about Racism “But we’re also minorities who struggle.”Dear Aunty & Uncle, Let’s Talk About Privilege “But they’re looting and hurting innocent businesses. Nobody will sympathize with them.”Dear Aunty & …
Be the Friend You Needed!
Losing a loved one is beyond a doubt one of the hardest things many people have to experience. These moments are clearly difficult for the ones who are grieving the loss in different ways and for different amounts of time. What sometimes gets overlooked is how difficult it can also be for the support systems …
“But Everyone Goes Through That”
For months, you have been bottling things up to yourself. You finally are ready to talk to someone about what you’ve been dealing with. As soon as you release everything, you feel about 10 pounds lighter. And then the person you’re talking to says: “Yeah, but everyone goes through that!” The 10 pounds, joined with …